We recently enacted a new rule in our house:
No Technology until after 7pm
As the dark hours of winter overtook us, the hours of interaction with only technology increased. There isn't a lot to do in a tiny house when it's dark outside. However, I know from experience, the tendency to buzz our brains out with Facebook, Wild Kratts or even Kindle books, increases drastically in the winter months.
Tiny House or not,
rules need to be made around technology
if we are ever going to interact as a family.
Personally, I'll sit for HOURS reading books, which are almost all on my iPad or computer now. Don't get me wrong, reading is good, or can be good, but I have a tendency to forget everything around me - including my kids - when I'm reading a good book. This is not good.
My husband very rarely reads books, but he watches a lot of DIY building videos and documentaries on youtube. Again, these are not bad, but when I realized I was glued to my iPad books, he was glued to his phone/tablet and the kids were glued to their devises...for hours...almost every night....
I called a family meeting.
The verdict: no technology until after 7pm, with some exceptions: recipes from my iPad, building instructions and school projects are a few of them.
Instead of zoning out on our various devices, we've played multiple rounds of UNO and chess, practiced music, baked brownies and taken a fun family quiz. We haven't played Mancala, Jenga, Spot-it or Cribbage in a while but those are also on the agenda for our "technology free" time in the evenings.
There's also my sons ever present indoor tiny house soccer, baseball, hockey, boxing, swinging and whatever-other-motor-skills-he-thinks-up activities. No, I'm not kidding. He has discovered a wiffle ball makes a great soccer ball and baseball for indoor tiny house sports.
Of course, there was the time-out when he kicked that whiffle ball HARD and it hit my foot...but the very next time he very politely asked me, "Could you please move your feet mom."
Which I did.
I really don't mind the movement as long as objects (and people!) are taken into consideration!
As for my daughter, she has been blessed with just happening to be in the grade the YMCA offered free memberships to this year. This has provided her hours of swimming, which just happens to be great at getting out an overabundance of winter energy!
The days are getting longer (and warmer!) and we're looking forward to lots of out of doors time again but for now we are taking advantage of the time in our close quarters to enjoy being with each other instead of just enjoying our technology!